It ain't worth it..
Sometimes when the going gets tough, the tough gets going. Pack their bags, seal the box to misery and hop onto the next train to happiness and recovery. And with that, grit their teeth through the cr*ppy moments and use it to make them tougher.
It may hurt, yes..but there are others who are hurting even more. It may even be bitter, but aren't the truth sometimes are hard to swallow? So, they move on with their lives...not forgetting the pain or betrayal or loss they have endured.
But what about those who refuse to move on? What about those who prefer to take the route to self destruction instead? Those who are determined to drag others down with them, just because they cannot accept what happened? Oh yes, and what about those who see everyone (and everything!) else as a reason for his or her unhappiness?
They suffer. They become bitter and resentful. Some even tend to be psychotic. They will end up losing their minds eventually. People who were originally rallying for them will end up whispering behind their backs.
Well, for all I know - they can wallow in self-pity and denial and bitterness all they can.. But the thing they should realise is that the world goes on without waiting for them and in the end, it is YOU who is left to pick up the pieces anyway. And by then, others would have moved on without you.
So before you choose to break someone's heart, or pointing fingers at others for your downfall..remember to look into the mirror first and ask yourself -
IS IT WORTH IT?
IS IT WORTH LOSING YOUR SANITY AND HAPPINESS AND RESPECT OF OTHERS?
IS IT WORTH IT TO LOSE YOURSELF?
It may hurt, yes..but there are others who are hurting even more. It may even be bitter, but aren't the truth sometimes are hard to swallow? So, they move on with their lives...not forgetting the pain or betrayal or loss they have endured.
But what about those who refuse to move on? What about those who prefer to take the route to self destruction instead? Those who are determined to drag others down with them, just because they cannot accept what happened? Oh yes, and what about those who see everyone (and everything!) else as a reason for his or her unhappiness?
They suffer. They become bitter and resentful. Some even tend to be psychotic. They will end up losing their minds eventually. People who were originally rallying for them will end up whispering behind their backs.
Well, for all I know - they can wallow in self-pity and denial and bitterness all they can.. But the thing they should realise is that the world goes on without waiting for them and in the end, it is YOU who is left to pick up the pieces anyway. And by then, others would have moved on without you.
So before you choose to break someone's heart, or pointing fingers at others for your downfall..remember to look into the mirror first and ask yourself -
IS IT WORTH IT?
IS IT WORTH LOSING YOUR SANITY AND HAPPINESS AND RESPECT OF OTHERS?
IS IT WORTH IT TO LOSE YOURSELF?
posted by lion3ss | 1:39 PM
7 Comments:
Hello, got here from Sentraal Station.
Now now, this posting reminds me of my ex husband and my husband's ex gf!
the ex gf is the worse one! we call her a psycho as she went berzerk when my husband got engaged to be married to me.
she has not resigned, into blaming my husband for her misery.
oops i meant to say, she has not resigned from blaming my husband for her misery.
Nope. "Soheh" not worth it.
Ely : Welcome! Yeah.. some people just goes nuts over things that they don't realise it makes them lose out in the end.
Pok Ku: Dok imbuh orang tranung kata.
oh noooo.... i think this sounds a bit like me too.
was it me???
sorry!!!
ke i ter perasan?
p/s if it wasn't me anyway, what happened??
not worth a salt..
Rostam : Hear, hear..
Leez : No dear, not about you.
Come, come and gossip.. *evil grin*
atiza : Kan?
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